Friday, 06 February 2009

• I don't like my friends boyfriend.

  So my best friend, she's is so sweet and independent and strong and beautiful and outgoing. Yet she keeps dating guys who are over protective and unsocial. She doesn't date a lot, but the guys she does date she stays with for a long time. Her first serious boyfriend, "Chad", didn't seem to like me. He was two years older. He would never let her hang out with me or me and my friends unless he was around. We were freshmen/sophomores in high school... So I didn't see her that often. Later to find out he hated me. I don't understand why, I'm a good person he just doesn't trust people with his girlfriends. He wouldn't let her do anything unless he was around. But she stayed with him for over a year and almost dated him a second time. Her next serious boyfriend "The Lumberjack" is again, older but only by a year this time. Now this guy is really protective and last year I saw more of her only because she drives. But even then, it wasn't that often. Maybe once every couple of months? We had planned on going to a concert together last summer and that day she called me saying she wasn't allowed to go because her dad wouldn't let her. Now, I know her dad pretty well and he would have let her until "The Lumberjack" put bad thoughts in her dad's head about the people at the concert. I ended up going, but not having that great of a time because I wasn't with my bestie. I worry about her dependency on these boyfriends, because she is so strong and special and doesn't need a guy to over look everything she does, this one now, "The Lumberjack", gets angered when he hears she did something stupid/dangerous like speeding or sneaking out to see a midnight movie. I will never undestand how a girl like this can end up with guys who are more protective than all of  her parents and mine. I want to tell her this. But I don't know how. Any ideas? I don't want to hurt her feelings, but I don't like that she's with them.

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  Fairytale?

  So I like to think I have a fairytale relationship. My girlfriends are all really happy and jealous. I've only been with my boyfriend officially for about two months, but we've dated off and on for two years. One of my best friends who has been with her boyfriend for almost two years always tells her boyfriend how jealous she is of what I have. Which makes me feel bad sometimes, because I know it hurts him. We've been compaired to the hall of famers at our school who were always together and always adorable. Usually with cases like this, there's a dark corner. But not here. We're just as fairytale-esque as we sound. It's not normal and sometimes I wonder why I deserve this. Of course then I tell myself to roll with it cause we love each other and nothing's gone sour so why spoil it? Basically... What do you consider to be a "fairytale relationship"?

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• Hi everyone! I'm just getting started on Datingish... Drop me a comment if you've got some ideas on what to do first - or just to say, "Hi!"

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